Life! You only have one and it is yours to live, so please take ownership and control of it. The overwhelming majority of your life is (or should be) within your control and as such let’s drop excuses, finger-pointing and blame.
Be cognizant, mindful and aware of the feelings and needs of your family, friends, coworkers and others, but ultimately, it is your life and you will need to make decisions and take actions which YOU believe are the best. Audit your life, then plan the steps necessary to achieve those goals, and most importantly, act!