Lead your life. Be a leader of your life and do all you can to live it to the fullest each day. Yesterday is gone, never to be seen again. Today is here, value it and leverage it fully. Tomorrow, is a promise, not a guarantee.
Along the way, focus on happiness and what truly matters to you, your family, friends, your inner circle and do not allow comments or thoughts of those outside that circle to derail your plans and progress. Remember, this is your life and you are in charge, not them.